Tyler Paxon, Ph.D. wants to teach men how to become quality men, so they can attract quality women. He recently left academia and has developed a short flirting quiz to assess men’s current skills and introduce these men to his methods. (He also has teamed up with a woman in the field, and his quiz also assesses the flirting skills of women).

T.P. has studied the vast array of writings in the field of dating and attraction over the last 10 years. He’s been impressed by a lot of it. He thinks both men and women are in a better position to get what they want on the dating scene than they were 10 years ago. But Tyler is also a little frustrated.

While the dating “gurus” have done a lot right, and help men out a lot, T.P. thinks they need improvement in these 5 areas:

1. They’re geared toward “speed” seduction. Some talk about “getting a woman into bed in 7 hours flat” and stuff like that. The emphasis on speed leads to many problems.

2. They don’t encourage men enough to try to screen women for disease, and mental instability.

3. They focus on picking up girls at bars and night clubs, and not other venues, like coffee shops, book stores, or social circles.

4. Men are left to try approaching women with material that feels canned.

5. Sometimes it seems as though men are supposed to see women as trophies — to be conquered, stuffed and mounted on the wall.

In light of these shortcomings, T.P. developed an alternative. A slower, safer, more respectful method of attracting and seducing high quality women.

TP’s method gives men a web-based planning tool to manage their material and the women they’re involved with. It also provides ways for men to find the right stories and other material that works best for them. T.P. calls the new method “slow seduction.”

So, how does T.P. introduce men to his new concepts? With a flirt quiz.

Tyler Paxon Ph.D. is the founder of the How To Flirt website. Take his free quiz at http://how2flirt.com